Men with small dicks are inherently less of a man. Yeah yeah, people will try to convince you otherwise and tell you to be confident and that people don't care. But in reality, people do care, so much it's very public that people praise bigger dicks. How many times have you seen anyone praise a small one online if it wasn't for the fact that men were being shamed, but because they want to? Never! And there's a reason for that.
Furthermore, small dick men tend to be very insecure and depressed by it, making them less of a man. You could hide and accept it, but everyone feels bad for you. Not even in an sph way, but in a way that one looks at someone disabled.
A lot of the attraction then comes from the fact that these small-dicked men compensate a fuck ton. The stereotypes exist for a reason, and usually they're always accurate. Too nice, too focused on the partner and what they can't bring to them and not the other way around, too selfless, and even force themselves to be in positions out of shame, work hard to get rich, etc
On the flip side, they can compensate in another way. Too aggressive, wasteful of money, crass, rude, angry at the world, quick to judgment and hate, defensive, loud, etc.
It's quite funny to see, especially because people refuse to acknowledge something so obvious to not hurt feelings and to make themselves look good.
This isn't to say you can't get a bf or gf with a small dick. Not at all, as I've mentioned, men with small dick compensate a fuck ton. Just accept you weren't their first, second, or even third choice in partner. Especially because you have a fatal flaw that permanently damages a person's view of you when they know. And they will know. If you accept this and accept that people will have to settle for you, then you can make it. If not, well... you have my sympathy.