Vulgarity is a plague in porn, at least for me it is a gigantic turn-off. I like to look at these long-haired gods, they look fragile and powerful at the same time.
But I can't forgive China, look at this: the bromance is there but the CCP censored the good stuff.
No wonder MDZS is so popular, but we lack a good novel with REAL people coming out, maybe the last one was Men with Swords. The novel adaptation from MDZS was kinda crappy compared to the manhua but good enough.